Q4 Clue 757 | Helping
A request for help at work or in your personal life. How do different styles deal with helping (request for help)?
D-style
Quick in asking for help. But beware other styles can also quickly interpret it as delegating. Not so quick to offer or pledge help. It should serve a purpose: helping.
I-style
Finds it a bit tricky to ask anyway. It’s also a kind of confrontation; what if the other person says no? Or is it a weakness that I need help? And asking is one thing, but you also have to plan.
S-style
Help for instructions is essential for this style; help for execution then not – if the instruction was clear, of course. Also intrinsically motivated to help and ready to help all the time. This is also a pitfall!
C-style
This style is driven to learn and execute themselves. Correct and precise. Will not easily ask for help, unless from an authority. Also quite willing to help but keeps a balance. If it tips over, don’t.
